> [!tldr] Either do the thing, or admit to yourself you don't really want it This was an "aha" moment for me when I read chapter ~3 of [[Hell Yeah or No (source)]]. A nagging frustration that comes up often: > I keep wanting to... *(insert thing here)* ...but don't have the time! Chances are: you don't actually want it. If you truly wanted it more than you wanted to, say, look at your phone before bed (or other [[Modern Dissatisfiers]], then you'd have done it. Realize your priorities. You are the [[Locus of Control]]. > [!tip] Actions, not words, reveal our values > [!quote] > I had been fooling myself for years, telling myself I wanted to do this, but my actions proved otherwise. Yes, I wanted it a little bit, but I wanted something else more. > – [[Derek Sivers]] **** # More ## Source - [[Hell Yeah or No (source)]]